How every IEP should start.

We are scheduling our first ARD meeting at the monkey’s new school. I hate these meetings. They are tough to handle. The discussions are about how my son isn’t meeting expectations. And it breaks my heart. 💔 Educators forget that words have power. And they should focus on how they are used.❤️💙 Photo credit: Autism…

Autism & Anxiety

Today was hair cut day. Although the monkey did pretty good, didn’t scratch and didn’t hit, he’s extremely anxious. The shower that normally tends to calm him down didn’t work. He’s been jumping and hitting himself for a while now. We keep reassuring him that he’s safe. But he’s struggling to get there. 😥

Why?

Why? 💔 Photo credit: Herding Cats by Phoebe Holmes

Hiking

Got up early today and tried hiking with the family. We even took one of our doggies. It’s a mile up and a mile coming down. We can do this! We figured it will be dead if we go early. Nope. There was a hiking party. We thought it’d be too much for the monkey…

Great wave. 💙

We are in a great wave right now. The monkey has been doing amazing. His bus arrives at our home at 6:30 am. We wake him up at 5:45 and he right away gets in the shower and comes out so happy. I remember when I used to have to tackle him, wrap him up…

Juggling 💔

Juggling world’s expectations vs actual capabilities, pretty tough to do. 😪 Photo credit: Parenting ADHD & Autism  

The cure for autism.

The cure for autism. 💙❤️ Photo credit: Autism Spectrum Disorder, through my eyes.  

Autism, where the little things are never little. ❤️💙

We realized we had a leak in our tub. My husband had to break the tiles to get to the leak. While my husband was working, the monkey was mesmerized. He was giving us the tools (his attempt to assist), he would touch the pipes, and get excited when he saw the water. He even…

I read my monkey’s teacher’s note and it just baffles my mind. First, he knows he has the option of taking a break by taking a walk. And second, he knows how to ask for the walk when he’s stressed. I’m in awe right now but also, so proud of my son. Little steps for…

The Fine Line of Hope

The Fine Line of Hope- perfectly described. ❤️💔💙 Photo credit: Finding Cooper’s Voice